I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it- Brad Pitt writes a sweet love letter to Angelina Jolie

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“My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much.And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man.If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“                 
- Brad Pitt


Sweet ❤️ 

“My wife got sick.  She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. 

She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs.

She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. 

Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. 

I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. 
After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. 

She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.

I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.

You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“            

- Brad Pitt



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  1. This is a must read to all Men

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  2. This is a must read to all men! so true!

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  3. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

    Please, if you're going to repost something else you found, verify it first and credit your source.

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    1. Whether its brad pitt or someone else doesnt matter the message is 100% true

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    2. I agree and even reading it , it sounds so fake. As if Brad Pitt would ever say these things . lol

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    3. and snopes.com is supposedly a credible source?

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    4. As soon as I read it I knew it wasn't real. You can tell it is written by someone who does not speak English well. It is kind of funny to scroll down and read some of the comments where people are arguing about whether or not they are married when that has nothing to do with the fact that this little essay has absolutely nothing to do with either of them. I agree with some of the previous comments that it is a sweet story but I just wish folks wouldn't assume things are true just because the internet said so...

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    5. I was going to say... this letter doesn't sound like anything an intelligent, well rounded and worldly person like Brad would write.

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  4. I love this. I would sure love to have a second chance. Brad Pitt is a good man and what a wonderful lady Angelina is. I don't idolize celebrities but there really are some great ones, even in my age group. Brad is only couple months older than me and it helps to see the very last of the baby boomers cherishing their wife. I see many younger people in true love these days too.

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    1. Actually, he may have, and probably did, help her get into this funk. He then paid attention and she felt better--wow, exactly guys!!! Please be good to your woman, and don't use her like background music and attack when she's right or looking for a way to make life "better"! If the Brad and Angelina thing was based on sex, a lot was missing. But thank G-d he got it!!! Amazing!! Now if he would go make it up to his last girl...

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  5. yes, and this is what I could not get across to Dale. that he needed to step up and be the MAN. that he needed to nourish me like a plant, give me sunlight and fresh water and take care of me, so I would blossom and in turn glorify hin. now we are getting divorced.

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    1. Dale didn't need to step up and be a man. Being a man does not mean taking care of a woman like she is a lost child. You needed to step up and be a woman. Or how about just an adult. That's why you're getting a divorce.

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    2. I'd like to hear the either side of the story! You had to call him out by name huh?!!

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    3. I'd certainly would like to hear his side of the story! You HAD to call his name out huh?!! SMH!!

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    4. Stop self pitying. It takes one to change another. Instead of sitting there waiting for a cure do SOMETHING

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    5. Stop self pitying. Instead of sitting there waiting and wishing and drowning in your sorrow DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Self pity is all over your comment..

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    6. Has it ever occurred to you that maybe you should treat him the same way? Relationship's a two-sided thing, yet you seem to be self-centered. If that doesn't change, of course you're going to get divorced this time, and the next, and the next.

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    7. Has it eve occurred to you that maybe you should treat him the same way? Relationship's are a two-sided thing, yet you speak in an incredibly egotistical and self-centered way. If you don't change that, and understand that you should be as grateful to your partner as they should be to you, you're not only going to divorce "Dale," but everyone after him, too.

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  6. what a sweet, caring and thoughtful man,,a great husband and father

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    1. Why didn't he put such effort into his real marriage with Jennifer Anniston?

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    2. Certainly a great husband if he had put such effort into his real marriage with Jennifer Anniston....

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  7. what a sweet, caring and thoughtful man,,a great husband and father

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  8. Um... Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are not married. Fake story.

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    1. guess what? you don't need an organization to call someone your spouse, just the love in your heart.

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    2. guess what? you don't need an organization to call someone your spouse. all you need is the love in your heart, which people have been doing for decades.

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    3. ^ agreed, and brad pitt runs his own a-list production company making some of the smartest and highly praised films out right now so i doubt he struggles to string together 350 coherent words

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    4. dude some times ppl call their partners their wife or husband

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    5. Some times persons who have been with some one for a long time, call their partners husband or wife! This is most likely what he was referring to

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    6. Last time I checked they were still married...

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brangelina

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    7. Interesting that you say this. The bad grammar is a little suspect for me, too. But, it's a good anecdote about love!

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    8. Indeed... and I hope Brad could write more coherently than that.

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    9. so they had to be married for the story to be real? wow you are such a retard.

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    10. so they have to be married for the story to be real? you are beyond stupid.

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    11. How about the fact one of his reps confirmed it's hogwash?? Don't believe everything you read, it's unhealthy.

      http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    12. How about it has to be real to be real .. don't believe everything you read, especially on the internet. Freethinking isn't just believing what you want.

      http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    13. Except maybe the fact it's a lie......

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    14. Absolutely fake story, yes.

      http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    15. The people that are beyond stupid here are the ones believing a fake story and then attacking anyone that suggests it is fake because pertinent facts in the article are wrong.

      Guess what? Fake story, check your sources.

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    16. "I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon" You can't divorce someone you're not married to. Reading is fundamental, guys.

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    17. Yes some ppl do refer to to their lovers as their Husband/Wife however the don't say divorce if they aren't married. Fake story I'm sure And no they don't to be married for the story to be real, the reason its not real is whoever wrote it clearly didn't realize that they aren't married hence the line where the author used the word divorce. I am sure Brad Pitt wouldn't forget getting married.

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    18. Um, this is a fake story that has been circulating for a loooong time. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    19. it's so funny that every time without any exception that when there is an internet fight about something controversial, someone always comes out and comments on the grammar or spelling as an attack...........what is it about the obsession with grammar and spelling? grammar and spelling perfect people are always reliable? what if english was the fourth language of a really well read person? just silly that's what it is

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    20. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp
      Not Brad Pitts story,,

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    21. ummm that Wikipedia link doesnt say they are married it says they are engaged and it says they are partners....but now wedding date in that wikipedia link....

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    22. No but...according to Snopes, Pitt denies ever writing, or saying this....http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    23. No, but according to "Snopes", and Pitt's rep, he never wrote, nor said this. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    24. You're right...Pitt denied saying or writing this piece.http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    25. Its a beautiful message whoever wrote it. But confirmed to be false representation here:
      http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    26. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

      But truth be told...Its a beautiful message whoever wrote it

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    27. No, but the fact that Pitt's Rep has stated Brad had nothing to do with this letter says it's not real. Nevermind Pitt is an educated man and there are a significant number of obvious grammatical errors in the piece. That said, the sentiment is still lovely.

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    28. No, but the fact that Pitt's Rep has stated Brad had nothing to do with this letter says it's not real. Nevermind Pitt is an educated man and there are a significant number of obvious grammatical errors in the piece. That said, the sentiment is still lovely.

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    29. No, but the fact that Pitt's Rep has stated Brad had nothing to do with this letter says it's not real. Nevermind Pitt is an educated man and there are a significant number of obvious grammatical errors in the piece. That said, the sentiment is still lovely.

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    30. It's a great story, but Brad Pitt didn't write it, they're not married, and they don't often call eachother husband/wife. Look up the story on snopes. Again, great story - but not written by Brad.

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    31. It's a great story, but not written by Brad. Check it out on snopes. He didn't write it and they are NOT married. Engaged, yes. Long committed relationship? Yes. And I personally have never noticed the media reporting that they called eachother husband/wife. Besides, you don't consider divorce if you're not legally married. Again, awesome story - but "fake".

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    32. I don't understand why some people have something negative to say about sweet stories and love stories, can't you just keep your comment to yourself and let the rest of us just think of how sweet some people can be!!

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  9. "The idol of over half the men and women on earth"....ON WHAT PLANET? Maybe his own planet. Whoever wrote this (obviously not Pitt) is a moron. ..and apparently has an unhealthy obsession with Brad and Angelina.

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    1. on the surface, it may seem sweet. what about his 1st wife, that he cheated on...that this wonderful angelina decided she wanted a married man? i suppose its ok if your husband leaves you, as long as he treats the next woman the way he should've treated you... #sarcasm

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  10. If they are Married of not, it is still a beautiful idea/story to put out.

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  11. If they are Married of not, it is still a beautiful idea/story to put out.

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    1. Let me guess...your single ot unhappy in your marriage? Lol

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    2. Let me guess, your single or unhappily married lol

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  13. It's so sweet! But I did wonder of it's truthiness. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  14. Wow...where can I get one of those?

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  15. Wow...where can I get me one of those?

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  16. i really hope this is not Brad Pitt ,because this person needs to take a writing class.

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    1. It isn't.

      http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  17. i really hope this is not Brad Pitt ,because this person needs to take a writing class.

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  18. ^ agreed... and this is horribly written. brad pitt runs an a-list production company making some of the smartest films out right now, so i doubt he struggles to put together 400 coherent words

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    1. Yeah, it is a fake article. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    2. you guys need to chill and write something we can put down..

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  19. Whether real or not, I realized the same thing as this reflection... N that's Real talk.

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  20. Whether real or not, l realized a similar story n reflection... N that's Real talk.

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  21. fail. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp
    Does no one check on accuracy anymore?

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  22. Phail. Does no one bother to fact check anymore? http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  23. Right??? That was my first thought lol

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  24. True story, Brad tweeted about it.

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    1. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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    2. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

      Then why did he say here he had nothing to do with it.

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    3. Really? His rep has publicly denied his having anything to do with this letter. On record. Seems fitting given brad & angie aren't married for one. For another, brad is an articulate and well spoken man who would not make such glaring grammatical errors seen in the post above. Also, the fact checkers have already busted the story above proving it false several months ago, that this letter was written by brad.

      Link the tweet, please.

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  25. True story. Brad tweeted about it. They're hot enough for only each other!

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  26. This is completely fake and poorly written

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    1. Both.

      http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  27. That is so beautiful even if isn't really Brad Pitt that wrote it.

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    1. Not only is it fake, but it is too poorly constructed to even be beautiful. The concept is nice, I suppose.

      http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  28. That is so beautiful, even if Brad Pitt didn't write it.

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  29. How ridiculous and, as BB said, FAKE. Mr. Pitt and Ms. Jolie are not married. How could he divorce her?

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  30. What utter nonsense. As BB mentioned, Mr. Pitt and Ms. Jolie are not even married. What kind of fools do you take us for?

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  31. It is clear that this was written by someone for whom English is not the first language.

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  32. Even if it is a fake story it shud b a model for the guys out there and how to treat their women.

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    1. Based on your grammatical errors in your statement I suspect you are the author of the article.

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    2. True. But people should present it as such and stop trying to attach Brad's name to it. False is false.

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  33. Yes they are lmao what planet are you from

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    1. No. They are not. They got engaged in 2012 but have yet to formally marry. They said for a long time they wouldn't until gay marriage was legal. Big rumors, however, they were getting married this month around Christmas.

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  34. Yes they are lmao.. what planet are you from?

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  35. I Love Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt they are the best of soul mates and being the biggest celebrity duo in the world they have the best of everything Fame, Love, Wealth, and Legacy to see the shine Brad gave to Angelina is the most powerful gift ever. My wife and I are the same and sixteen years of going through the tough and our success we know our only trust is in ourselves..."The making of a Great Man is his Great Women by his side...Gods Truth. Angelina Jolie is a number 9 a nine can go through the deepest of negativity and always pull themselves out of it. I am a nine and the negative and redicule I have for building my vvx.Technology I know now the power is in your Partner for life. One Love to Brad and Angelina.

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  36. Two comments. 1) Whether they are married or not has nothing to do with their relationship, their commitment to each other, nor the timeline of their commitment.They are committed through the fact that they decided to start a family together, regardless of how they file their taxes 2) No one should regard women in this way. "The woman is the reflection of her man" is supposed to be the victorious conclusion to this post, which - by Pitt or not, or even by an English speaker or not - has nothing to do with how horribly biased this statement is. A woman is hopefully a reflection of no one but herself. A composite (composite, reflection, and manifestation) of the people she admires, respects, and loves, as well as herself. And a woman *hopefully* in no way requires the approval or love of a man (or anyone) to make her a functional, loving human being. Having the faith and support of anyone who loves us or whom we love can be a defining moment in our lives, but should not define us. Hopefully, people who read this letter in the hopes of receiving an inspiring message can take this into account.

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  37. To Brad and Angelina Jolie the best Celebrity Duo on our Earth...and first of all I would like to thank them for the goodness they have made in this world. As past heroes and legends pass away this year the Legacy lives on in our Celebrities.
    Angelina and Brad Pitt are a part of that Legacy.
    Angelina's number 9 says it all Humanitarian and Compassion through in through where there is a Great women there is always a Great Man.
    Number 9s can go through the most negative and pull themselves out of it with Brad by her side it was the best thing he could do.
    It is so great to see Angelina on The Gold Coast, I am a fan but I know her strengths are her family, fans globally, and her humanitarian relief to the world...
    God Bless Angelina and Brad and keep these stars shining.
    My wife and I are the best and have been through the toughest ridiculed and negative..we dealt with it and fought the good fight with our strength combined we are a force to be reckon with...People with facts and ambition will always outshine people with hate and negative deception
    Michael Borell founder of Global9billionclub The Gold Coast, Southport.

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  38. Great write up, but FAKE! http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  40. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  41. Sorry to break it to you folks BUT this love letter was not written by Brad Pitt. He is not the original author of this letter. Peace!

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  42. Sorry folks BUT this love letter was not written by Brad Pitt. He is not the original author. Peace!

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  43. Isn't it a two-way street? If she is a reflection of her MAN (which I think is pretty misogynistic to say in the first place), then wasn't he also sleep deprived, worried, ill when she was? Doubt he wrote this.

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  44. Isn't it a two-way street? If she is a reflection of her MAN (which I think is pretty misogynistic to say in the first place), then wasn't he also sleep deprived, worried, ill when she was? Doubt he wrote this.

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  45. Brad Pitt didn't write this. First, he's much smarter than the grammar presented here. Second, he and Angelina are far too private to post something so personal. It's a good thought, though - it just wasn't written by Brad Pitt.

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  46. The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“
    - Very well said. Thumbs Up.

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  47. The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“ - Very well said. Thumbs up.

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  48. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  51. This was obviously written by a non-native English speaker, which is fine, it's just not the dialect or diction he would ever use. Worst fake ever.

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  52. Mr Pitt truly Nice to saying on his post wall about Ms Jolie, since I believe that Jolie have a Manic depressed and as far won't admit to everywhere than I have see many good in the people who they are hide and cant see inside of her feeling... I agreed with Mr pitt have to a plan get to divorced and respect in her life... simple!... No dramatic I can see that good this point....

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  53. This is the message of the movie Fireproof and it's book The Love Dare on doing what Brad did.

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  54. I have loved to the point of madness. That which is called madness. That which to me is the only way to love. Francois Sagon

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  55. I have loved to the point of madness. That which is called madness. That which to me is the only way to love. Francois Sagan

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  56. happy thoughts and flowers don't always kill pain & its fairly temporary...time perseverance #Determination ...how easy to say thing one day ALL MEN SHOULD READ THIS >>> and do the opposite the very next ... recovery is possible ...do you really think #Angie is so #perfect ??? She isn't spoiled or stuck up {so much...she doesn't like #buttheads} ...that much is pretty evident.

    EVERY PERSON HAS #INSECURITIES ...it isnt fair but it is something to be overcome [OVER TIME & ESPECIALLY WITH A WELL THOUGHT OUT PLAN]

    ...it is difficult...*fudge!!...Find Any & Every #plausible way to make it any easier {raise the odds that I CAN DO THIS!!

    ...unless.....continue down said sad path of pity hopelessness &comfort in apathy...TURN YOUR BLIND EYE TO A DEATH WORLD....just like Mel Gibson in #LethalWeapon4 ...I think we all were wondering why his character couldn't beat the blond kid kicking his butt in the boxing ring ...thought for sure maybe he was Mr. Martial Arts Special Forces Badd-Azz DuDe ...what happened you think?? Think maybe he got complacent...comfortable with an imaginary grasp of his perfection and lost interest in goals meant to be achieved over a longer period of time NOT OVERNIGHT ...its part of being #dysfunctional .....instead of using my head and keep it simple i make excuses and make it easy (#theeasywayout) its not easy to face #SKELETONSINTHECLOSET...its something to be taken with a grain of salt and perhaps humor...no one expects us to be perfect but they ALL HOPE WE IMAGINE OURSELVES TO BE SO instead of beginning that #JOURNEYOF1000MILESBEGINSWITHONESTEP

    ...not making rules for myself or deciding that things have to be a certain way or another ....i mam the type of #IDJITwill just dive in without second thought or preparation to learn how to swim in a lake of petroleum jelly cause someone might laugh at me if i dont show people i do something crazy or 'brave' (liking a taking a risk with my life)

    , sink to the bottom on the lake where i will bang my head into a rock over and over (expecting a different result each time} until my skull cracks open, then go, WOO-HOO! with all my friends, patting myself so hard in the butt that my hand breaks only to repeat the process over and over again because "nothing bad happened"

    or...instead of Congratulating Ourselves & Our Friends For Being Nimrods we can just admit that we aren't perfect and we won't be until we are IDK ~80 years or so {if we didn't lose sight of our goals, dreams...our #shortcomings} ...

    yeh...Angelina not a stuck up or bigot ... almost all of us got our own little dysfunctional mini-us' to overcome (over a really long period of time) ...say...maybe hers has something to do with violence or something ...

    would you ever kill someone Maybe If They Were trying to kill you? {does anyone ever say "No." to this question???

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  57. Who cares? The world is suffering and people are starving and these millionaires get all the attention. Insane.

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  58. happy thoughts and flowers don't always kill pain & its fairly temporary...time perseverance #Determination ...how easy to say thing one day ALL MEN SHOULD READ THIS >>> and do the opposite the very next ... recovery is possible ...do you really think #Angie is so #perfect ??? She isn't spoiled or stuck up {so much...she doesn't like #buttheads} ...that much is pretty evident.

    EVERY PERSON HAS #INSECURITIES ...it isnt fair but it is something to be overcome [OVER TIME & ESPECIALLY WITH A WELL THOUGHT OUT PLAN]

    ...it is difficult...*fudge!!...Find Any & Every #plausible way to make it any easier {raise the odds that I CAN DO THIS!!

    ...unless.....continue down said sad path of pity hopelessness &comfort in apathy...TURN YOUR BLIND EYE TO A DEATH WORLD....just like Mel Gibson in #LethalWeapon4 ...I think we all were wondering why his character couldn't beat the blond kid kicking his butt in the boxing ring ...thought for sure maybe he was Mr. Martial Arts Special Forces Badd-Azz DuDe ...what happened you think?? Think maybe he got complacent...comfortable with an imaginary grasp of his perfection and lost interest in goals meant to be achieved over a longer period of time NOT OVERNIGHT ...its part of being #dysfunctional .....instead of using my head and keep it simple i make excuses and make it easy (#theeasywayout) its not easy to face #SKELETONSINTHECLOSET...its something to be taken with a grain of salt and perhaps humor...no one expects us to be perfect but they ALL HOPE WE IMAGINE OURSELVES TO BE SO instead of beginning that #JOURNEYOF1000MILESBEGINSWITHONESTEP

    ...not making rules for myself or deciding that things have to be a certain way or another ....i mam the type of #IDJITwill just dive in without second thought or preparation to learn how to swim in a lake of petroleum jelly cause someone might laugh at me if i dont show people i do something crazy or 'brave' (liking a taking a risk with my life)

    , sink to the bottom on the lake where i will bang my head into a rock over and over (expecting a different result each time} until my skull cracks open, then go, WOO-HOO! with all my friends, patting myself so hard in the butt that my hand breaks only to repeat the process over and over again because "nothing bad happened"

    or...instead of Congratulating Ourselves & Our Friends For Being Nimrods we can just admit that we aren't perfect and we won't be until we are IDK ~80 years or so {if we didn't lose sight of our goals, dreams...our #shortcomings} ...

    yeh...Angelina not a stuck up or bigot ... almost all of us got our own little dysfunctional mini-us' to overcome (over a really long period of time) ...say...maybe hers has something to do with violence or something ...

    would you ever kill someone Maybe If They Were trying to kill you? {does anyone ever say "No." to this question???

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  59. EVERY PERSON HAS #INSECURITIES ...it isnt fair but it is something to be overcome [OVER TIME & ESPECIALLY WITH A WELL THOUGHT OUT PLAN]

    ...it is difficult...*fudge!!...Find Any & Every #plausible way to make it any easier {raise the odds that I CAN DO THIS!!

    ...unless.....continue down said sad path of pity hopelessness &comfort in apathy...TURN YOUR BLIND EYE TO A DEATH WORLD....just like Mel Gibson in #LethalWeapon4 ...I think we all were wondering why his character couldn't beat the blond kid kicking his butt in the boxing ring ...thought for sure maybe he was Mr. Martial Arts Special Forces Badd-Azz DuDe ...what happened you think?? Think maybe he got complacent...comfortable with an imaginary grasp of his perfection and lost interest in goals meant to be achieved over a longer period of time NOT OVERNIGHT ...its part of being #dysfunctional .....instead of using my head and keep it simple i make excuses and make it easy (#theeasywayout) its not easy to face #SKELETONSINTHECLOSET...its something to be taken with a grain of salt and perhaps humor...no one expects us to be perfect but they ALL HOPE WE IMAGINE OURSELVES TO BE SO instead of beginning that #JOURNEYOF1000MILESBEGINSWITHONESTEP

    ...not making rules for myself or deciding that things have to be a certain way or another ....i am the type of #IDJIT who will just dive in a lake of petroleum jelly without a second thought or any preparation to learn how to swim in cause someone might laugh at me if i dont show people if i dont do something crazy or 'brave' (liking a taking a risk with my life for no goddamn good reason)

    , sink to the bottom on the lake where i will bang my head into a rock over and over (expecting a different result each time} until my skull cracks open, then go, WOO-HOO! with all my friends, patting myself so hard in the butt that my hand breaks only to repeat the process over and over again because "nothing bad happened"

    or...instead of Congratulating Ourselves & Our Friends For Being Nimrods we can just admit that we aren't perfect and we won't be until we are IDK ~80 years or so {if we didn't lose sight of our goals, dreams... of our #shortcomings our little spat with with our personal dysfunctinality} ...

    yeh...Angelina not a stuck up or bigot ... almost all of us got our own little dysfunctional mini-us' to overcome (seriously...take over a really long period of time...no rush...i will be second nature to rush through anyway) ...say...maybe hers has something to do with violence or something ...

    would you ever kill someone Maybe If They Were trying to kill you? {does anyone ever say "No." to this question???
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    Michael Dus if you ever had to ask if you were a good person then you ARE inherent good (and who knows probably dysfunctionality)..inherently wicked people i imagine "don't think stuff like that"

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  60. Yeah that sounds great. I'll enter into a relationship with an unstable woman. One who publicly french kissed her own brother, fucked Billy Bob in the limo on the way to an awards ceremony, and wore vials of blood around her neck. Then "boom" her biological clock starts ticking and she needs to have kids, or adopt them, or a mix of the two.
    But guess what?
    Even the best PR team in the whole world can't cover up the fact that she's a fucking mess of a person. Someone who can't function as a mother to her kids or partner for the man in her life unless he "lived just for her."
    Fucking psycho babble bullshit nonsense.
    Life is hard.
    And without the buffer of the millions that they have in the bank, it's not so fucking easy to shower her with gifts and attention when you're trying to keep the lights on and pulling overtime shifts. More and more couples get married, pop out kids and then proceed to fucking destroy their broods emotional sensitivity.
    Lets welcome the rise of UFC bloodsport, the ever lowering of our national IQ and an accepted destruction of social safety nets for all.
    The amount of bad grammar and terrible analysis in the preceding comments depresses me immensely.
    And after all, these are just symptom's of bigger problems we don't have the strength to address.
    Merry Christmas

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  61. Yeah that sounds great. I'll enter into a relationship with an unstable woman. One who publicly french kissed her own brother, fucked Billy Bob in the limo on the way to an awards ceremony, and wore vials of blood around her neck. Then "boom" her biological clock starts ticking and she needs to have kids, or adopt them, or a mix of the two.
    But guess what?
    Even the best PR team in the whole world can't cover up the fact that she's a fucking mess of a person. Someone who can't function as a mother to her kids or partner for the man in her life unless he "lived just for her."
    Fucking psycho babble bullshit nonsense.
    Life is hard.
    And without the buffer of the millions that they have in the bank, it's not so fucking easy to shower her with gifts and attention when you're trying to keep the lights on and pulling overtime shifts. More and more couples get married, pop out kids and then proceed to fucking destroy their broods emotional sensitivity.
    Lets welcome the rise of UFC bloodsport, the ever lowering of our national IQ and an accepted destruction of social safety nets for all.
    The amount of bad grammar and terrible analysis in the preceding comments depresses me immensely.
    And after all, these are just symptom's of bigger problems we don't have the strength to address.
    Merry Christmas

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  62. Yeah that sounds great. I'll enter into a relationship with an unstable woman. One who publicly french kissed her own brother, fucked Billy Bob in the limo on the way to an awards ceremony, and wore vials of blood around her neck. Then "boom" her biological clock starts ticking and she needs to have kids, or adopt them, or a mix of the two.
    But guess what?
    Even the best PR team in the whole world can't cover up the fact that she's a fucking mess of a person. Someone who can't function as a mother to her kids or partner for the man in her life unless he "lived just for her."
    Fucking psycho babble bullshit nonsense.
    Life is hard.
    And without the buffer of the millions that they have in the bank, it's not so fucking easy to shower her with gifts and attention when you're trying to keep the lights on and pulling overtime shifts. More and more couples get married, pop out kids and then proceed to fucking destroy their broods emotional sensitivity.
    Lets welcome the rise of UFC bloodsport, the ever lowering of our national IQ and an accepted destruction of social safety nets for all.
    The amount of bad grammar and terrible analysis in the preceding comments depresses me immensely.
    And after all, these are just symptom's of bigger problems we don't have the strength to address.
    Merry Christmas

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  63. Yeah that sounds great. I'll enter into a relationship with an unstable woman. One who publicly french kissed her own brother, fucked Billy Bob in the limo on the way to an awards ceremony, and wore vials of blood around her neck. Then "boom" her biological clock starts ticking and she needs to have kids, or adopt them, or a mix of the two.
    But guess what?
    Even the best PR team in the whole world can't cover up the fact that she's a fucking mess of a person. Someone who can't function as a mother to her kids or partner for the man in her life unless he "lived just for her."
    Fucking psycho babble bullshit nonsense.
    Life is hard.
    And without the buffer of the millions that they have in the bank, it's not so fucking easy to shower her with gifts and attention when you're trying to keep the lights on and pulling overtime shifts. More and more couples get married, pop out kids and then proceed to fucking destroy their broods emotional sensitivity.
    Lets welcome the rise of UFC bloodsport, the ever lowering of our national IQ and an accepted destruction of social safety nets for all.
    The amount of bad grammar and terrible analysis in the preceding comments depresses me immensely.
    And after all, these are just symptom's of bigger problems we don't have the strength to address.
    Merry Christmas

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  64. Yeah that sounds great. I'll enter into a relationship with an unstable woman. One who publicly french kissed her own brother, fucked Billy Bob in the limo on the way to an awards ceremony, and wore vials of blood around her neck. Then "boom" her biological clock starts ticking and she needs to have kids, or adopt them, or a mix of the two.
    But guess what?
    Even the best PR team in the whole world can't cover up the fact that she's a fucking mess of a person. Someone who can't function as a mother to her kids or partner for the man in her life unless he "lived just for her."
    Fucking psycho babble bullshit nonsense.
    Life is hard.
    And without the buffer of the millions that they have in the bank, it's not so fucking easy to shower her with gifts and attention when you're trying to keep the lights on and pulling overtime shifts. More and more couples get married, pop out kids and then proceed to fucking destroy their broods emotional sensitivity.
    Lets welcome the rise of UFC bloodsport, the ever lowering of our national IQ and an accepted destruction of social safety nets for all.
    The amount of bad grammar and terrible analysis in the preceding comments depresses me immensely.
    And after all, these are just symptom's of bigger problems we don't have the strength to address.
    Merry Christmas

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  65. Yeah, that sounds great. I'll marry a train wreck who french kissed her brother in public, fucked Billy Bob in a limo on the way to an awards ceremony, talked about it on the red carpet and used to wear vials of blood around her neck. No PR team on earth can keep that level of fucked up from shining through. Then the biological clock starts ticking and she decides she needs kids, or has to adopt them, or both. But she's still an emotional disaster who can't function unless her life partner "lives only for her."
    Fuck her, and fuck you too if you think that's a healthy environment to have a relationship to raise kids in.

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  66. Sorry I don't model my life after fiction, because its easy to have a happy ending in fiction. Real life is different.

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  67. Sorry I don't model my life after fiction, because its easy to have a happy ending in fiction. Real life is different.

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  68. Why is it that everyone points out that this is how a *man* should act? Why are men the only ones who must do this, according to so many? Honestly, *everyone* has downs, and needs that support from their significant other, not just women. A true relationship/marriage is about supporting and being there, and loving and helping each other, not just one partner doing it in order to get that love in return. For every woman that says that their man needs/needed to read this and understand it, also realize that perhaps, (in some cases), they may need to take it to heart as well.

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  69. This essay on "A Secret of Love", written from the perspective of a man about his love for his wife, has been widely circulated via social media in the last few years and is typically attributed to actor Brad Pitt. But Pitt hasn't had a wife for several years now: his five-year

    marriage to actress Jennifer Aniston ended in 2005, and although he has subsequently been involved in a long-term relationship with actress Angelina Jolie (and the couple announced their engagement in April 2012), they have not yet officially married.

    We don't yet know who the original author of this bit of romantic fluffery was, but this item was making the social media rounds long before Brad Pitt's name became attached to it, and a rep for the actor confirmed for us that he had nothing to do with it. A number of linguistic issues in the piece suggest that it was either written by someone who is not a native speaker of English or it was imperfectly translated into English from another language.

    Last updated: 25 September 2013
    Read more at http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp#jWTCRpe0mJ7gBE3m.99

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  70. This essay on "A Secret of Love", written from the perspective of a man about his love for his wife, has been widely circulated via social media in the last few years and is typically attributed to actor Brad Pitt. But Pitt hasn't had a wife for several years now: his five-year

    marriage to actress Jennifer Aniston ended in 2005, and although he has subsequently been involved in a long-term relationship with actress Angelina Jolie (and the couple announced their engagement in April 2012), they have not yet officially married.

    We don't yet know who the original author of this bit of romantic fluffery was, but this item was making the social media rounds long before Brad Pitt's name became attached to it, and a rep for the actor confirmed for us that he had nothing to do with it. A number of linguistic issues in the piece suggest that it was either written by someone who is not a native speaker of English or it was imperfectly translated into English from another language.

    Last updated: 25 September 2013
    Read more at http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp#jWTCRpe0mJ7gBE3m.99

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  71. The thing that makes me sad though is that he left another beautiful as ever woman for this one. Why could he not act this way towards his first covenant? I guess people live and learn, but when I read his words, it kind of pains me.

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  72. I agree! Plus it even sounds fake reading it. As if Brad Pitt would ever speak publicly like that about Angelina ! Lol

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  73. Not only is this not true, it's also clearly written by someone who doesn't speak English fluently.

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  74. It's a fake. http://cdn.optmd.com/V2/80255/186452/index.html?g=Af////8=&r=www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  75. It's a fake. Here is the link for it: http://cdn.optmd.com/V2/80255/186452/index.html?g=Af////8=&r=www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp

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  76. So many hateful people. Jeezus. I like the message. I don't care if it's fake

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  77. So Sweet Couple.. Merry Christmas!

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  78. Wow a Fairy Tale Story that happens in Real Life, Just like Mine. Very Touching Moment.. Hope you Had a great and Happy Life Forever... Merry Christmas And Happy New Year everyone Around the World <3

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  79. OF COURSE LOVE PREVAILS NO WONDER JESUS SAYS LOVE EACHOTHER IT`S ALL ABOUT LOVE,,IT IS MAGIC,,W DONT KNOW WHY WHEN WE ARE LOVED WE FEEL SO DIFFERENT ,,ITS THE MAGIC AND THE MIRACLE OF JESUS CHRIST

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  80. It's on the internet so I know it must be true.

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  81. love prevails,NO WONDER WHY JESUS SAID LOVE EACHOTHER,IT IS MAGIC ,I DONT KNOW WHY WE FEEL SO SECURED AND GOOD WHEN WE ARE LOVED,,IT S A MIRACLE FROM JESUS,

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  82. It's on the internet so it must be true.

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  83. I don't care who wrote it. I don't care if it's poorly written. It's nice and hopeful.

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  84. Wow thank u we are not the only couple that went though what u all have it can be done my husband and I went thew similar issues and we made I love my husband more than life itself we went though hell and back and our love was stronger than before if u love some one they are worth the fight. Thank u for your story it affirms our story too that love can concer all thanks Jamie & Tony crews

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  85. Brad Pitt did not write this, you idiots who think this is true because Brad "tweeted" about it, neither of them even use twitter so stfu...
    Brad and Angelina are together yes, but they haven't officially married yet so how can they already be thinking bout divorce?? Actors like him don't write this poorly, use your head guys...

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  86. Brad Pitt did not write this, for you idiots who think this is true because Brad "tweeted" about it, neither Brad nor Angelina even use twitter so stfu...
    Brad and Angelina are together, yes, but they are still engaged and haven't officially married yet so how the fuck can they already be thinking about divorce?? Use your head guys, actors as great as this man don't write this poorly.

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  87. Give me a break, how silly...she needs expert counseling

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  88. Give me a break, this is silly...she may be "happy" at the moment but the woman needs professional counseling. It's only a matter of time before her internal demons reassert control and plummets further into the dark abyss.

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  89. Give me a break, how silly...she needs expert counseling

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  90. …and women need to learn how to treat and appreciate a good man!!!

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  91. Yeah, she had to get sick, lose 30 pounds, go into depression before he decided to "step up" and treat her right!! They've been together how long now?!! So much for Hollywood's "Power Couple"!

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  92. Brad, you now know what it means to be a real man.

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  93. Because apparently fantasy and romance cures all ailments. Being good to a person is one thing, but borderline obsession is another. True romance in a fruitful relationship isn't all flowers and kisses. This is a very unhealthy delusion for men and women alike.

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  94. Either way, fake or real, the bottom line is that this works both ways. Marriage is work not an excuse to stop trying. When one falls behind the other carries them to the finish line. Give and take, effort and benefit. A circle of balance and strength.

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  95. Either way, fake or real, the bottom line is that this works both ways. Marriage is work not an excuse to stop trying. When one falls behind the other carries them to the finish line. Give and take, effort and benefit. A circle of balance and strength.

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  96. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp This is a fake. Please revise your post.

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  97. so sweet i wish i can met them in person! Brangelina forever!

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  98. Someone's got some ratchet grammar. Not that I'm amazsauce at it or anything, but that shit cray. Cute as fuck and beautiful, but cray.

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  99. Love therapy. Lover is a healer.

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  100. Love therapy..lover is a healer.

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  101. Love therapy..love is a healer.

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  102. Who is that girl i see, staring straight back at me?

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  103. I despise letters like this weather they are fake or real. They try to imply that one sex is more important than the other. Both people in a loving relationship should be putting it all on the line equally.

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  104. I despise letters like this weather they are fake or real. They try to imply that one sex is more important than the other. Both people in a loving relationship should be putting it all on the line equally.

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  105. How Awesome!! what a Real Man ! All men should read this if they only knew what a little caring does for any person woman or man can make a difference

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  106. http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp Not Brad Pitt's story but still sweet story

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  107. why couldn't he do it with his first wife?

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  108. "If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it." So, he drove her crazy?

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  109. whether or not its fake I do not see why there is so much swooning over this. it is down right patronising on the part of a man on his woman. it is presumptuous and very chauvinistic. a reflection of her man? hence the blossoming?? if relationships are read this simplistically and love reduced to nothing much more than calculated flattery and 'pampering'...I rest my case

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  110. Jesus Christ people can you just not criticized people here. everyone deserve a good story fake or not I'm sure it made your day.

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  111. oh! come on people fake or not it is a good story and it made my day I wish my husband do this to me.

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  112. Does it matter who wrote it? it's the message that's important...

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  113. Does it matter who wrote it? it's the message that's important...

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  114. It works both ways. Men flourish in their reflection in their woman's eyes. Women flourish in their men's.

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  115. According to snopes.com http://www.snopes.com/glurge/secretoflove.asp this is false.

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  116. "If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it."

    So, he drove her nuts? Yeah, that seems completely legit.

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  117. The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it. ......and vice versa. :)

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